Fist-fucking or fisting is a sexual activity that involves hand insertion into the vagina or rectum. It may be performed with or without a partner, but it is commonly a partnered activity.
Fisting Day started in 2011 by Jiz Lee and Courtney when their film was banned after featuring a fist-fucking scene. The fisting day then helps to unravel positive information about fisting.
In a blog post, Lee writes about fisting and the reasons why everyone should try it. Fisting is pictured to be dangerous because of our culture, but, anyone who loves fisting knows fully well that it can be the most intimately connecting adventure with a lover. Fisting is good with threesome, two fists going into two different partners, while they kissed each other passionately. Sex is, therefore, more than penis-vagina penetration but a pleasurable communication that could come in different forms. Fisting is one of the forms.
You can celebrate International Fisting Day (October 21) by keeping the following information in mind:
#1: Be careful about the way you talk about fisting
Talking about fisting sometimes can be threatening. It is not a great thing to say when you have not put part of your hand inside someone before. When you have to talk about it, target some specific time, like during lunch when you are fully dressed and in public, as your partner will feel relaxed with you, except you are a nudist.
#2: Always be fully prepared
Knowledge is power. Don’t engage in fisting when you are completely blank about it. Learn about it before trying it by either reading about it or watching it.
In preparing for it, get your nails trimmed, wash your hands, and take off any jewelry you have on your hand. If you don’t trust the integrity of your nails, make use of latex glove or other latex-free materials in case of latex allergy, and make sure your hand is well lubricated. You can get some toys and do a lot of foreplay before thrusting in your hand. The fistee should also be relaxed and be ready for the adventure.
#3: Use plenty of lube
You will be surprised that you will need more lube than you think you will need. Use a bottle with a dispenser on top for convenience. Make sure you get enough lube.
#4: Go slowly
Start small, end big. Don’t rush it, you can start with one or two fingers and be adding another finger slowly. After having the four fingers in, you can then add your thumb which looks like you are trying to reach the bottom of Pringles container. Remember to use more lube. You might not be able to do this if it is your first time and that’s fine! It is a subject of differences in holes, hands and days. Be positive about the moment and try again or try another day.
If you made it inside, make very reasonable motions. You can gently open and close your fingers, jerk your fist from side to side or move it back and forth very slightly. Stop moving, if your partner starts to orgasm unless your partner asks for more.
Remove your hand gradually and gently, when you’re done. Break suction by slipping your finger alongside your wrist, if you feel stuck.
#5: Keep talking about fisting
It is important to talk about your experience after fist-fucking, just like talking about it beforehand. When it feels good, you can easily tell by paying attention to your own, and your activity partner’s responses. Verbal encouragement is also an important asset to effective and improved fist-fucking.
Practice it today. It is really fun.